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love your kids? show it by beating them ... An alternative is to smack your child up side the head with your palm. Very useful for teaching your child to read when he or she makes a mistake. Hitting your child when he or she is learning builds confidence, or undermines confidence--I can't remember which.
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www.thebestpageintheuniverse.net/c.cgi?u=beat
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Many parents think that beating, slapping or hitting is the correct way to prevent undesirable behaviour or to punish unwanted behaviour among children. Hitting a child is NOT an effective method of parenting. Hitting, slapping, beating, "thumping", pinching or "boxing" a child only reinforces violence.
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www.unicef.org/jamaica/parenting_corner_2904.htm
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Hitting devalues the parent-child relationship. Corporal punishment puts a distance between the spanker and the spankee. This distance is especially troubling in home situations where the parent-child relationship may already be strained, such as single-parent homes or blended families.
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www.askdrsears.com/html/6/T062100.asp
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Also, differ-ent children respond in different ways to disciplining methods. ... Fix, repair, toss, or lock up anything that might be a danger to your child. ... Studies show that children who experience or witness a great deal of spanking, slapping, or hitting are much more likely to become aggressive themselves.
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www.extension.iastate.edu/Publications/PM1529B.pdf
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Is Hitting An Appropriate Form of Child Discipline? ... Disciplining Toddlers ... Child Development...
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www.wholefamily.com/aboutyourkids/child/discipline_9_qa...
www.wholefamily.com/aboutyourkids/child/discipline_9_qa.html
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Alternatives to hitting that correct behavior while offering positive lessons include removal of a related privilege, a frank discussion about why a rule exists, or requiring the child to make some kind of restitution (cleaning up a mess, doing a chore, paying for damage).
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www.redcross.ca/article.asp?id=003544&tid=030
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There are much better ways at disciplining a child. I had stated on another similar debate that I believe spanking a child may be appropriate at particular times, ... Both of my parents have hit me. I know that kids make mistakes, but everyone does. Hitting a child with a belly or other objects won't fix the problem...
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www.blurtit.com/forandagainst/Hitting_Your_Child_With_A_Belt_For_Punishment_Is_Completely_Inappropriate
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Disciplining a toddler is no easy matter. But certain behaviors have to be stopped at once. Hitting is one such behavior. What can you do to put a stop to a child's hitting before someone gets hurt? ... REMOVE a child from any situation in which he is deliberately hitting another child. If a child is a toddler and has...
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childcare.about.com/od/behaviorsanddiscipline/qt/hitting.htm
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Why has hitting your child to discipline them become so taboo? Maybe our country might have turned out better if people still practiced this? Ta hell with taboo. I would still... ... Because many people hit to actually hurt the child. ... "Hitting" is not the correct term, for me... Spanking is. However, the problem is that...
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