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Marital conflict caused by a selfish spouse ... How do you think you do receiving from your spouse? Do you appreciate that married love is caught up in divine love? ... a weakness in trusting and self-giving as a result of never feeling safe with the father or mother who was distant, angry, alcoholic, selfish or left the family...
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But remember, if you or your spouse is using the controlling and abusive instinct of selfish demands to try to get what you need, you will most certainly destroy the love you have for each other-and in the long run, you will not get what you need.
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www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3404_selfish.html
www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3404_selfish.html
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When you present the problem, avoid expressing it as being the fault of your spouse. "If you were less selfish, we wouldn't have this problem," is an example of a disrespectful judgment that will get you nowhere.
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www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8115_prob.html
www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8115_prob.html
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Those who aren't selfish are willing to try new things and occasionally do things they really aren't interested in, just to please their husband or wife, but a truly selfish spouse won't consider anything they don't want to do.
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www.associatedcontent.com/article/642359/how_to_live_wi...
www.associatedcontent.com/article/642359/how_to_live_with_a_selfish_husband.html
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Western Producer May 29, 1986 ... Q: My problem is my husband. We have been married 30 years. Lately, there has been no love between us at all, only criticism and fights. He is one of these people who thinks only of himself, and of getting his share of food. ... I can't talk things over with him. If things aren't done his way,
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www.lib.sk.ca/booksinfo/WesternProducer/1986/wp860529.h...
www.lib.sk.ca/booksinfo/WesternProducer/1986/wp860529.html
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For the first time, though she has been telling me for years, I realize what a poor and selfish spouse I have been. What can I do to show her I want her heart and the love we once shared to come back. I want her to know that this is the most important thing in my life.
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www.dearcupid.org/question/for-the-first-time-i-realise...
www.dearcupid.org/question/for-the-first-time-i-realise-what-a.html
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Marlo was confused between selfishness and self-responsibility. Actually, in their relationship, Jack was the selfish one in expecting Marlo to give herself up to take responsibility for his feelings and needs. By not caring about her own feelings and needs, Marlo was training her children to be selfish as well.
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www.seniormag.com/caregiverresources/articles/caregiver...
www.seniormag.com/caregiverresources/articles/caregiverarticles/relationships/loving.htm
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It happens to a lot to people. You fall in love. The romantic phase blinds you to your partner's imperfections. Your spouse is a jerk. ... The Self-centered and Selfish Person...
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I know how a selfish spouse can tear the other down with them. I've been there and done that one. I wasn't taught how to give of myself, being the spoiled little brat that I was growing up. I was so into "myself", and so out in left field for my marriage, that is, until I found the love of Jesus for my life.
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