"As adults, arrogant-vindictive people are ferociously competitive: they 'cannot tolerate anybody who knows or achieves more. . . , wields more power, or in any way questions [their] superiority'. They have to humiliate of defeat their rivals.
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By showing vindictive people that you are not greatly affected by the issue or the situation, you can surprise them and make them wonder how you can be so calm and collected when confronting or making/emphasizing a point.
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Some of the most hateful, spiteful, vindictive people I have ever met have been church people armed with the TRUTH, determined to use that truth; to get something they want or to defeat someone they view as being their enemy.
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Women are not vindictive. Women are people and there are vindictive people and kind people. Now that you are not out to find a mate to work out your anger issues with (we attract the ones we need to work out our issues, you know) maybe you have a new chance to find another woman who is kind and loving.
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A parody of 'The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People', this document shows what it takes to be vindictive and petty. ... One of the largest differences between highly vindictive people and the mere drones that make up most of humanity is anger management. Now I know you have heard about anger management before,
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Vindictive people also have less friends and are less satisfied with their lives. The study appears in the current edition of the Economic Journal. ... This is in stark contrast to vindictive people. With these people, the equation "more money = more work" does not always apply. Even pay cuts are not an effective means...
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Obsessive vindictive people drive me up the wall. What makes people so vindictive and hate filled? What happens when someone believes that they’ve been victimized and can not accept responsibility for their own actions?
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Arrogant-vindictive people are motivated chiefly by a need for vindictive triumphs. Whereas narcissists received early admiration and perfectionists grew up under the pressure of rigid standards, arrogant-vindictive people were harshly treated in childhood and have a need to retaliate for the injuries they have suffered.
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You don't need to go through life 'holding your breath' around people who are considered 'difficult!' Dealing with them has more to do with setting boundaries and limitations for ourselves regarding what we will, or will not tolerate from others. ... By Laura Benjamin ... You must do your homework, discuss facts in an...
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some people are so vindictive Midnightly vin·dic·tive Disposed to seek revenge; revengeful Marked by or resulting from a desire to hurt; spiteful I must say i wander ... Date: 3/14/2003 6:51:00 PM From Authorid: 47930 I see this alot, I think people that do this are just plain unhappy.
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